How to help students who are being bullied
Everyone can help prevent school bullying, and most people have directly or indirectly participated in, witnessed, or experienced some form of bullying in their lives. Teachers and school staff play an important role in preventing and responding to bullying, by modelling good relationships and reminding students of acceptable/unacceptable behaviours. According to research (Dowling & Carey, 2013), if students think that their teachers do not know how to effectively intervene, they are less likely to seek help. However, students are more likely to report bullying if they think that:
- the teacher knows what to do;
- the teacher will respond sensitively and effectively;
- they will be treated with respect and provided support; and
- the teacher won't make things worse.
For this reason, it is important to not only learn about bullying, but to talk about it with students too. Whole school approaches to understanding and responding to bullying can be extremely helpful in preventing cultures of bullying. Policies, practices, and school-wide professional development can support staff and students. When these practices are widely communicated to students and parents and carers, school families can understand more clearly what to do when bullying occurs and feel more confident in accountability and reporting processes. Transparency around bullying policies can also help students to feel more confident to ask their teachers for help.
Life Ed has created this flyer for parents to help them understand bullying which you may wish to send home.
Resources
There are several very good resources to help you and your students understand what bullying is, and what to do about it. Many of these resources can also help you to increase your understanding of different forms of bullying, and provide useful avenues to support parents and carers.
- Reach Out provides support on mental health and wellbeing, bullying, family, and peer relationships.
- Bullying No Way covers a wide range of issues on bullying.
- Bullying isn't banter | headspace is a useful resource with links on bullying behaviours. Headspace also provides free counselling services for young people.
- eSafety Commissioner provides a range of resources for parents and carers and teachers, designed to raise awareness of cyber security in students
- Parent Hub - Dolly's Dream can help you understand how to keep young people safe online.
- We All Solid Anti-Bullying Program – Telethon Kids Institute provides resources to support bullying in First Nations contexts.
- Bullying - Kids helpline can help young people and you understand bullying and deal with its impacts.